You are forgetting the old argument of the Frankfurt School (that's still valid imho):
Corporations (like Facebook) argue that they are giving people exactly what they want. But with this they are referring to people as 'free individuals', which they have ceased to be, under the permanent influence of same corporations.
Well, you are still aware of it, calling them sheeps ;-)
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